Getting a relationship back together after experiencing a breakup can be a hard thing to do. Are you one of those people who are asking “How can I get my ex back?” It may be possible to get a relationship back but this will depend on the strategies that you have.
There are also questions that you need to answer to come up with the best strategy in getting a relationship back such as what have you done before, during and after the breakup? How long have you been apart? Who left who? And why did you break up?
First of all, you should always keep in mind that no one person is entirely accountable for everything that went wrong in a relationship but that does not mean it’s 50/50 either. In most cases, one person is more accountable for the trouble than the other person. To figure this out, you shouldn’t let pride eat your personality and be honest with yourself to know whose fault really is. Besides, being humble might be a big help so that your ex would want to bring you back.
Once you have figured out the mistakes that you need, you can now proceed to the next step which is to fix it. To start with, you should know the aspects that you need to change or improve within yourself. By doing this, you will become a better person and your ex will more likely fall in love with you again because you changed for her or for him.
Once you have faced your mistakes and done some changes, you are now prepared to show off the improved person that you are to your ex. It is now time to let him or her see the better you. In doing this step, there are still some factors to consider. If you have no restraining orders or if your ex is ready to see you again, then you could meet together at a certain place. But be very sure that your ex wants to see you.
If your ex is not ready to see you, then you might just want to spend more time with mutual friends so that they will be the ones who will witness how much you have changed. Those people will most likely spread the news and this will eventually reach your ex. Never meet with mutual friends with the purpose of talking them for your ex to take your back. Just be with them and let them know you and how much you have improved. Have a casual meet-up with them and just act natural.
Once they have seen the difference in you, they will be convinced to tell your ex that you are now a better person and you are now a good match for your ex. This will most likely result for your ex to have the interest of meeting with you again and you can now try to fix things between the both of you.
All of the relationship advice suggests that with patience, luck, motivation and love, you may just find the way to get your ex back after experiencing a breakup and you will have a higher chance of getting a strong relationship back with your ex.
Thank you, I’vе been sеarching for information about this topic for a while and yours is the best I have discοvered so far. Do you think it can still work if she left because of my drinking?
Hi Santos, it could – I guess you would have to stop tho. I hear A.A. is a good program for working on your relationships at the same time as you work on the drinking.
A lot’s going to depend on what comes first with you, the drinking or the girl. Sounds harsh but it’s the truth.
My name is harry from the UK.. I want to help my best friend get his ex back. He is miserable since she is gone but he won’t do anything about it. Should I talk to her or is there nothing I can do? I dont like seeing him so down, he is normally such a funny guy.
Harry, the best thing you can do for your friend is help him get back on his feet. Let him talk to you but don’t let him wallow in misery. Encourage him to get back to doing things he always loved to do – not by telling him what he should do, but by doing things yourself and inviting him along. Then maybe he could meet up with his ex again when he is happier. But while he is on such a downer, his ex is unlikely to find him attractive, so bringing them together right now could do more harm than good. Hope that helps
if you need your Ex back you have some good ideas.
Some people do get back together, I know a couple who remarried each other, even after a divorce.
do you have problems in your marriage? with your ex?
I guess we wouldnt be here if we did not
I read that 70% of couples break up and get back together at some time in their relationship. I guess a lot of those are early in the relationship, but all the same. There is hope.
i just got my lover back but now i don’t trust him
Darlene, it takes time to rebuild trust. Both of you will need to be patient with that.
I agree this is the best way to get back your lost lover and reunite your broken relationship with a longer lasting love